Things To Say (And Not To Say) To Escorts

So, you've taken the time to browse our selection of London escorts and you want to make a great first impression. Smart thinking. A little charm can go a long way, and knowing what to say (and what to avoid) can be the difference between becoming an escort's favourite client or one they actively avoid.

Quick & Easy Compliments

Say This: "You’re so easy to talk to."

This is gold. It shows you appreciate the vibe she’s created and that you’re enjoying more than just her looks.

Sugar, one of our chatty and charming girls, said, “When a client tells me I’m easy to talk to, it makes me feel like we’re really clicking. It sets the tone for a relaxed and fun date.”

Being able to hold a good conversation matters, so let her know you’re enjoying it.

Say This: "You smell amazing."

Simple, genuine, and very effective. Complimenting her scent shows you’re paying attention and helps create an intimate atmosphere.

One of girls Erika said, “When a guy notices my perfume, it tells me he’s really present. That always earns him brownie points.”

Scent is powerful, use it to your advantage.

Say This: "You have the most gorgeous smile."

It’s a classic for a reason. A warm, sincere compliment like this goes a long way, especially when paired with eye contact.

Charlie said, “I love when someone compliments my smile. It feels personal and sweet, not just about my body.”

Want her to feel good? Start with something wholesome.

Say This: "You’re amazing at what you do."

A compliment on her skills, without being crude, is always appreciated. Whether it’s conversation, massage, or more, let her know she’s nailing it.

Beauty shared, “When a guy says I’m amazing at what I do, it makes me feel confident and seen. It’s the kind of praise that feels respectful and sexy.”

You’re not just thanking her, you’re encouraging her to keep doing what she does best.

Say This: "You’ve got incredible energy."

This one’s a winner. It shows you’re tuned into her vibe, and that you appreciate her effort to create a great experience.

Anastasia, known for her bubbly personality, said, “When a guy tells me I’ve got great energy, it puts a smile on my face. It’s a real boost.”

Let her know you feel it, and you’re into it.

Conversation Killers

Avoid This: "So, what’s your real job?"

Cringe. This question implies that escorting isn’t a “real” profession. Newsflash, it is.

Robyn, who’s been in the industry for years, explained, “It’s like they’re trying to say I’m just passing time until I get a ‘proper’ job. I chose this, and I’m proud of it.”

Stick to getting to know her within the space she’s comfortable sharing.

Avoid This: "How many guys do you see a day?"

Yikes. It’s intrusive, and frankly, none of your business.

India didn’t mince her words: “That question kills the mood instantly. I’m here with you, don’t start comparing yourself to imaginary others.”

Focus on the connection you’re building in the moment.

Avoid This: "Can I film this?"

Hard no. Unless she’s explicitly stated otherwise, filming is off-limits.

Lottie was clear: “Asking to film is a fast track to ending the session. It shows zero respect for my privacy.”

Keep your phone in your pocket. The best moments don’t need to be recorded, they need to be felt. Or, if you do want it filmed, you can pay a little extra for a session with our filming escorts. 

Avoid This: "You’re too pretty to be an escort."

Nope. That’s not the compliment you think it is.

Riley laughed when she heard this: “It’s like saying I’m wasting my looks. Why do people think beauty and brains can’t exist in this job?”

Stick to compliments that make her feel valued, not judged.

Avoid This: "Do you ever date a client?"

Asking this puts her in an awkward position and blurs professional lines.

Penny explained, “It always feels like a test like they want me to say there’s a chance. I’d rather just enjoy the moment without that pressure.”

The best experiences happen when everyone stays on the same page.

Ready to Say All the Right Things?

Now that you’ve got the lowdown on what makes a great impression, it’s time to put it into practice. Browse our gallery of stunning, friendly, and professional escorts, pick the perfect match, and let the chemistry flow. With a little charm and the right attitude, you’re in for an amazing time!